Interviewed / Will Interview

Me and my enthusiasm on blog hopping had caused myself to be interviewed. Well, obviously I asked for it out of having no idea of what to blog about. Mats, who is already a good online friend and knows a bit too much than what she should know about me? (Ahahaha!) gave me the following questions to answer. To my surprise, it took me quite a while to come up with a good response. Oh well… here it goes:

1. Would you quit your dream job because you hate your boss?

Well, for me it depends on the situation. If I realize I’d be a big loss to the company then maybe I would, and let them chase after me. (harhar!)

No seriously, sometimes having a bit of pride and knowing what your capabilities are let’s you believe that you can have your dream job if you strive for it wherever you are, which means you can still get it from another company.

But of course, I’d only decide on this when I feel like I’m not getting my worth, or I’m being degraded or similar circumstances. I believe you can get what you want when you work hard for it and no one can stop you, not even your boss.

2. Is there such things as "meant to be"?

I think so.

Fate, destiny… sometimes it’s easy to believe in them especially when things happen when you least expect it and when you can’t explain how it came to be. If things are meant for you they will come true and you’ll get it. But this doesn’t mean that you’ll leave it through fate and destiny alone. Giving your share of effort in achieving it should always be considered and having faith in the Almighty still is the best tool in getting the best meant to be for me, for more, believing that it will come at the right time is something that should also be remembered.

3. What do you think is the "key" to survive long distance relationship?

It’s not as easy as it sounds, but it’s proven:

1.) I’d probably hear my boyfriend echoing the same phrase: “honesty and trust”.

2.) TRUE LOVE in your hearts.

3.) Being prepared for sacrifices.

4.) A deep amount of patience to spare.

5.) Even if we’ve had problems with this one: communication.

6.) The will to stay true to each other.

7.) The power to stay strong all the time.

8.) The ability to admit mistakes

9.) Learning to forgive without the grudge.

10.) Listen and understand.

I’ve probably said the best keys that aren’t for long distance relationships alone. If you’re willing to follow the list above, then I’d say you’d be able to stay on track within all sorts of relationships all the way.

4. How do you deal with stress?

Hmmm… by entertaining myself depending on my mood. I would do one or more of the stuffs listed below:

1.) Following my craving on foods.

2.) Buying something that I really want (if I can afford it).

3.) Reading through nicely written blogs with humor, inspiring, or simply browsing around to refresh my head with new ideas.

4.) Going out with my friends and have a good hearty conversation with limited booze.

5.) Blog about that stress.

6.) Sleep.

7.) Message my boyfriend and tell him all about it.

The relief that the list has on me differs on duration. My mood would dictate which one would have the biggest effect. Conflict on mood with my wanted relief would result in doubling the stress. So yeah, the point is, I should not be stretched to the maximum stress level that I could take. Hahahaha!

5. What is your dream wedding?

Oh… I never really thought of this. Well, maybe I have but I couldn’t decide yet on what I really want. Okay, I’ll let you in on a few glimpse of what I’ve patched up:

I want a garden wedding where I still get to dress up with a gown that would make me look like a fairy and a princess at the same time which means my dress would have a bit of colored streaks like laces besides the plain white. I want mini fairy flower girls throwing flower petals along the way, and fairy looking bridesmaids. Colorful dresses so there is no motif. I want really nice colorful flower arrangements. Honestly I just want to be able to dress up like the prettiest fairy for the day with glittery make up with a bit of flowers on my hair (or head). I can’t think of what the guys would wear, but I want them to look like princes? Something like that… I was actually thinking about having a pair of lovebirds instead of the usual doves (if it’s possible) or if not, I just want to have lovebirds around.

If the wedding is in the garden, I’d want the reception somewhere with a pool where floating candles and the right amount of balloons will be present. That’s all I could think of right now… well… of course there should be good delicious food and nice music to go with. Fun and dances after… -the end-

Okay, my turn to do the interview now... if you have nothing to post in your blog as well, then follow the instructions below to be a part of this interview meme:

1. Leave me a comment saying “Interview me.”

2. I will respond by emailing you five questions. I get to pick the questions.

3. You will update your blog with the answers to the questions.

4. You will include this explanation and an offer to interview someone else in the same post.

5. When others comment asking to be interviewed, you will ask them five questions.

Oh well! Go, go, go!